Tuesday, February 26, 2008

The dubious question!

Couples in love seldom drift away. That’s not what the truth is. Certainly not in today’s world where drifting away is so very likely. There could be manifold reasons that remain in oblivion till they manifest themselves in a very unexpected manner. Years of togetherness could come to a standstill not because something went wrong but more so because, you could not find the right reason to be together. That of course isn’t the case with most of the people. Love seems to be reason enough to be together for the rest of your life, bounded by the ties of matrimony. Life can be otherwise for some minute percent of the human population too. People who don’t think that love is enough to sustain a life with someone else for a lifetime. Not that they fall out of love or something like that. It’s just that they want the reason – they want to grow together, both as individuals and as a couple with loads of maturity and understanding in it. When couples have the desire and tendency to explore life together, they seldom grow apart. Couples need to understand the very fact that it is essential for them to have the same zest for enjoying and growing together. That of course comes when you share common aspirations in life with a tang of understanding.

Have I really found the person with whom I can grow together? The question is still very dubious.